Casual Dating Tips
So…remember the rules of normal dating? You know, the romantic stuff? Well, the first thing you can do is ignore all that lovey-dovey nonsense straight away. This is casual sex dating, also known as hook-ups, hooking-up or NSA (no strings attached) online dating.
That’s right - no more worrying about what to write in a text, whether you’ve replied too fast, and then waiting what feels like weeks (actually only minutes) for a reply that leaves you absolutely no clue as to whether things are going to heat up and get interesting! All of that is now a thing of the past for you because those frustrations have no place in looking for casual sex hookups.
When you’re trying to arrange a no-strings encounter, there is no need to spend ages trying to win your way into someone’s bedroom with flowers and empty promises. This NaughtyDatingClub site was created for the sole purpose of helping people to get together physically without any of that. The people you see on NaughtyDatingClub are here for the same reasons as you!
The key to success on this site is:
- Preparation
- Patience
- Recognising opportunities (there will be plenty of those)
Preparation
Anything that’s worth doing is worth doing right! And that counts double when it comes to finding a casual sex partner. You want a night to remember and that’s what you’re going to get. The fact you are reading this shows you’ve got the right attitude, so a quick pat on the back for that. But how do you prepare for multiple sexual encounters with different girls in your area? Well, it’s simple. You have to project the best version of yourself through your dating site profile.
This isn’t rocket science and again, the people you’re trying to meet up with aren’t looking for you to have a million interesting hobbies and achievements. They just want to see a nice photo and a couple of lines about you to show you can string a few words together. You do have a photo, right? Well, come on then, upload that bad boy!
Patience
So you’ve got a profile with a photo or two and some words to show you’re not some kind of mute robot. What next? Well, now the hunt begins, my friend. Well, maybe not hunt, it’s more like visiting a farm and picking out a turkey for Christmas dinner. But it still takes a little time and a touch of effort.
As you browse through the many, many profiles on our site, how do you decide who to contact for sex? And what do you say to get them into bed? Well, there’s no doubt that the more people you contact, the more one night stands you’ll get. But feel free to target the ones you are most attracted to first and then make sure that when you do send them a message, you try to be interesting.
Before going into more detail, it’s probably a good idea to remind you that if you see someone you know in your search results, show them respect and make sure you remember the key principle of this site – confidentiality. People come here for anonymous sex, so if you’re going to contact someone you already know, make sure they are aware that their secret is safe with you.
Sending a message can be hard. You stare at an empty space knowing that one wrong move or typo could result in the conversation ending before it’s even begun. However, what have you got to lose? There are plenty of people to speak with at NaughtyDatingClub! Relax, stay calm and type something better than “hi! How are you?” before clicking ‘send’. Then go to the next hot profile on your search list. Remember, this is not a high-pressure situation – you’re not trying to win hearts you’re trying to get laid by people who are looking to screw as much as you are. You don’t need poetry - just break that ice and move along the list of chosen hotties that are about to get the chance to spend the night with you!
Recognising Opportunities
You’re now a giant step closer to having no-strings sex, virtually on request. But before you start firing those steamy messages out to the sexy selection on offer at NaughtyDatingClub in your area, you need to think about your plan for dealing with the messages you get back.
Once the replies start coming, you must work towards proposing a meeting. With literally thousands of members near you, it should be simple to come up with a location that’s convenient for you both. At this point, you just want to seal the deal, but don’t count those chickens yet. But don’t be too eager – there are plenty of horny singles to go around and you don’t want to blow your chance on account of seeming desperate. Besides, play it cool but confident and you’ll soon find yourself making a plans for future weekends too! So never be pushy in order to try to make something happen immediately, judge your opportunities, be respectful and always be open to their ideas as it takes two to tango.
When preparing a reply, try to include a compliment and some humour, too. Only then ask them when they are free to hookup. Be calm and stay classy; you’re Mr. Bond not Mr. Bean! If you happen to get the go-ahead for sooner rather than later, then suggest a place to meet and once that’s in place, the time for effort is over and the time for payoff has arrived! Good job!
A final Thought
It may seem like a good idea and maybe you even enjoy doing it…but seriously guys, no “dick pics” as your main profile picture! A girl wants to see your face, she wants to see you have good chat, she wants to know that before and after the hot sex, you’re someone she can connect with and maybe even pass her number to for the same time next week. She doesn’t want to look at the one eyed trouser snake while browsing, no matter how proud you are of your schlong. Put it away and point that camera at your face. Show her your seductive eyes. Women love that shit. Balls are balls. Eyes are the window to the soul! Get noticed!
Besides, if you follow these simple steps, she’ll get a good look at your more intimate parts later anyway ;-)
Enjoy the site and remember, play safe!
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